1 Mega Tip for Thinking More About What Matters –

Read this story and then think about what matters.

Rod Steiger Story

“We grow too soon old and too late smart” Dutch Proverb

A Mega Emotional Fitness Training Tip: The more you think you know, the more your heart pushes your beliefs, the more you need to think more about what matters; the more you must think and think and think again.  

As the sages of the ages often note, “Love is blind.” When love of anything has you following your heart and your desires thoughtlessly, you out of touch not just with what matters, but with reality.

Heart, intuition must be linked to thought in order for you to act wisely and safely.

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Katherine

This post was inspired by this Word Press Daily PromptS/he Said
by Michelle W. Pause whatever you’re doing, and ask the person nearest you what they’re thinking about (call someone if you have to). Write a post based on the results.

I moved on thinking I wouldn’t post today, but then read this story about Rod Steiger and there you are. Thank you Dr. Mardy’s Quotes for the story.

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Tips to Better Controlling Your Future

Reality check: The future is not ours to control. Things happen. These tips offer better control, not control.

Quotes about the future

Emotional Fitness Training Tips

Emotional Fitness Training Tip One: Learn from the past, live now, and plan with hope for tomorrow. 

Emotional Fitness Training Tip Two: Practice Emotional Fitness Training’s 12 Easy Exercises. Each strengthen you to meet whatever your future brings.

Emotional Fitness Training Tip Three: Know your mission.  Your mission is about who you want to be, how you want to live your life and how you want to be remembered.  Despite the push to get things, to be a perfect, to go for the gold, in the end the best lives are lived by following the Golden Rule as this Poster Coach reminds us.

What matters? Kindness to all.

This Poster Coach is available as a free download at the EFTI Store

Emotional Fitness Training Tip Four: Set SMART goals that align with your mission. 

How to set SMART Goals

For more details on knowing you mission and setting smart goals think about buying my eBook. Yes, a bit of an ad. 

Ebook about missions and goals

Costs less than a latte and with Amazon’s Kindle App can be read on most devices. A good gift for graduates and the college bound.

Emotional Fitness Training Tip Five: Practice imperfection.  As noted in this previoius blog post,  pursuing perfection nurtures dissatisfaction with self and others.  Not useful.

This  post was prompted by this WordPress Daily Prompt:  Advantage of Foresight You’ve been granted the power to predict the future! The catch — each time you use your power, it costs you one day (as in, you’ll live one day less). How would you use this power, it at all? (Thanks, sarsidoo, for suggesting a similar prompt!)

I don’t try to predict the future. As the above shows, I try to learn, live, and take what comes gratefully.

A question for you. I do find the WordPress’s Daily Prompts make me think more critically and often spark a post. What I wonder is do you think they distract from the posts or add to them. If the only good is my pleasure I can drop them, but would like your opinions.

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Katherine

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Six Rules to Get You To July 5th

Lots of partying means lots of drinking. Besides following these Safe Drinking Rules, I plan not to be on the road much this weekend. What are your plans?

Emotional Fitness Training Poster

Download this poster from the EFTI store.

And I thought this little joke by internet and cartoonist  friend Carl D’Agostino related, well just a bit if you read my caption. TY Carl for letting me use your cartoons. Stay strong.

Start safe drinking now, so your July 4th and 5th will be.

Start safe drinking now, so your July 4th and 5th will be.

Another warning: Fireworks trigger Post Traumatic Stress Disorder flashbacksks in some veterans.  The booms take them back to the battle fields.  So restrain the impulse to shoot off around houses.

And yet another warning. July 4th is also the time more dogs are lost than any other time of the year. The noise doesn’t drive them to drink, but to run away. So keep pooch in the house on a leash. When in the house have the TV on so the noise is deadened.

This  post was not prompted by this WordPress Daily Prompt: by Ben Huberman — Going Obsolete: Of all the technologies that have gone extinct in your lifetime, which one do you miss the most?

I really miss the guys who used to pump my gas . When I was a teen, I loved flirting with them; moreover, they were the ones who had to get out in the cold and rain.

Sadly, more and more people are being replaced by machines. At most of my local stores five or six people jobs have been replaced by self-check out machines. Hate that as I am a people person.

But I must also say if my computer no long worked or the internet collapses, I would be deeply bereft.  Would survive by burying  my aging eyes in more books.

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Of all the technologies that have gone extinct in your lifetime, which one do you miss the most?

6 and More Ways to Bring Kindness To Your World

Kindness is the strongest proof of Karma as every bit act of kindness enriches you. Why it is a major Emotional Fitness  Training Exercise.

Ways to practice kindness

Emotional Fitness Training Tips

Emotional Fitness Training Tip One:  While I admire Random Acts of Kindness,  deliberate acts strengthen you moreDr Anders Ericsson said in the early 1990 that it takes 10,000 hours (20 hours for 50 weeks a year for ten years = 10,000)  what he called  deliberate practice to become an expert in almost anything.  While many have since disputed his claim, it is clear mega stars in almost every field prove his point.

Some good news: EFTI promotes starring in your life, not on the stage or the athletic playing field.  Good enough gets you there when it comes to everyday life. However, go here to learn how to be more deliberate in your practice of anything.  Here are ideas for practicing kindness deliberately.

 

Emotional Fitness Training Tip Two: Teach practicing kindness to all the children you know; I do not mean just chronological children.

Teaching kindness to children

Emotional Fitness Training Tip Three: Complain for others. Here’s an example. Sometimes I need to use the motorized shopping carts most large stores provide. I knew I needed on a very hot day even though I was only picking up a few items. The store had three such carts, not one of them worked. Although I just wanted to beat it out of there, I complained to the manager.

Sad to say I was told, the company they hired to provide the chairs gave lousy service. Not a helpful answer, so when I got home I wrote a letter of complaint to the company. Not a big act of kindness and partly for me, but what I mean by complaining for others.  You may have noticed I do some of that on Social Media.

A final poster coach  that should be in every classroom and  public forum. Well at least in my not-so-humble opinion.

Emotional Fitness Poster reminding you to Practice Kindness

As all the sages across all the ages and as today’s researchers know practicing kindness is the express lane to the good life.

This  post was prompted by this WordPress Daily Prompt: The Kindness of Strangers by Ben Huberman.  When was the last time a stranger did something particularly kind, generous, or selfless for you? Tell us what happened!

When I was trying  to make the mobilized shopping cart work as described above, a lovely man and his teenage daughter stopped to help. Didn’t get the cart working, but prompted me to complain as a way of passing the kindness forward.

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Remember to share and care all you find of value on the internet.  All here crave recognition. A like says “Thank You.” Comments say you have read and thought about the post. Sharing is a gift to three people: the blogger, the people you share with, and you for your kindness bless you.

Katherine

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