Emotional Fitness Training

New to this blog? Welcome.  Emotional Fitness Training (EFT)  provides self help material to  improve the  ability to manage mad, bad, or sad feelings.   We all need to work at strengthening our ability to manage our negative feelings.   The Pages provide basic information about emotional fitness and introduce the post categories or topics.  Reading them first works best.

I am a  licensed therapist ;  however, EFT is not therapy;  EFT provides  educational material, self help exercises, and tools.    More may be  needed and that may mean therapy of one sort or another.  Anyone considering therapy  needs to become  an educated consumer which is why   some of my  posts  provide therapy related  information.

WARNING FOR THOSE BOTHERED BY GRAMMATICAL IMPERFECTIONS:  I am learning disabled.  Although spell check helps keep me on track,  typos and other errors do  get through.   This may lead to frustration in some.  If such errors leave you irritated,  be kind to yourself and stop reading.   Avoiding angst when it can be avoided helps you deal with angst that cannot be avoided.

Katherine Gordy Levine

An emotional fitness exercise to improve your emotional intelligence and help you better manage anger, depression, anxiety, relationships, life.    Trees aflame with autumn, nights are chilling.  Thank you Tinna G. Knight for this one.  http://www.tinnagknight.com/images/large/Trees.jpg

Focus, breathe in, hold, focus, breathe out, smile, say “Ahh” and “Thank you.”

Be With Beauty

An emotional fitness exercise to improve your emotional intelligence and help you better manage anger, depression, anxiety, relationships, life.    Colorado double rainbow.  Taken from Daniel and Amy’s deck

Focus, breathe in, hold, focus, breathe out, smile, say “Ahh” and “Thank you.”

Be With Beauty

An emotional fitness exercise to improve your emotional intelligence and help you better manage anger, depression, anxiety, relationships, life.    Chrysanthemum at the Missouri Botanical Garden, St. Louis, MO.   http://www.flowerpictures.net/blooming/pages/mum_04-3.htm

Focus, breathe in, hold, focus, breathe out, smile, say “Ahh” and “Thank you.”

Be With Beauty

An emotional intelligence aka emotional fitness exercise.   These lovely blue bells from  Free Photos.  http://www.freefoto.com/images/12/36/12_36_14_prev.jpg

Focus, breathe in, hold, focus, breathe out, smile gently, say “Ahh” and “Thank you.”

Be With Beauty

An emotional intelligence aka emotional fitness exercise.  Picture by Susan Sterngold as she tramps through Alaska.  Lucky person.  Great photographer.  Thank her for this Be With Beauty Moment.

Focus, breathe in, hold, focus, breathe out, smile, say “Ahh” and “Thank you”.

Emotional Intelligence Staying Strong Tip

Thought this a great addition to the earlier post.  It is the work of students from the Coordinated Program in Dietetics, Class of 2006 working  in 2oo4 , under the supervision of Dr. Marcia Magnus. The book itself was put together by the Department of Dietetics and Nutrition in coordination with the University Park Wellness Center, and edited by Dr. Marcia Magnus.  Good work and useful information.

The Healthy Hurricane/Disaster Cookbook.

Emotional Intelligence Staying Strong Tip

Thinking ahead is part of emotional intelligence and staying emotionally fit.   This is about Hurricane Earl,  but good advice for dealing with emergencies in general.  Here are five tips from the ChristianScience Monitor:

  1. Keep in informed.
  2. Have a personalized emergency kit.
  3. Protect your home.
  4. Have alternative shelter
  5. Have an emergency plan.

See the link for more details.

As a WOW, I have lived through multiple “natural disasters.”   A number of hurricanes blew through my home town back in the  50′s.  Also endured  hiding under my desk in school because an Atomic Bomb was feared.   Blizzards hit Pennsylvania then too and not that I live in Colorado are what most likely will hole me up again.  Then there was 911 and its aftermath when we ratcheted up our emergency plans, with the biggest problem what to do with Whisper if I was downtown and David at home.   Decided David and Whisper should head for the hills and as I had Crisis Team license and training to work in a an attack, I would go where I could help.  We would eventually reconnect at Zach’s.  Nothing happened, the people of Katrina weren’t so lucky.  Do you have a true disaster plan?  It is important.

Story of Strength

Ginger as I know her, we both attended the University of Delaware, learned about learning disabilities as she watched one of her son struggle.  She put what she learned to use not just for her son but for others.  Here is her story.

UD Messenger – Virginia Biasotto.

Focus, breathe in, hold, focus, breathe out, smile, say “Ahh” and “Thank you”.

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Thank you Facebook Friend Russie Wight-Waltman for pointing me to this.

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News, Views, and Tips

Phys Ed: Does Stretching Before Running Prevent Injuries? – NYTimes.com.

An important article.  I hate static stretching, stretching and counting to 20. The latest research says don’t.  Instead warm up slowly and try  dynamic stretching–moving as you stretch using range of motion exercises.  Dance anyone? Lets do the twist.